How to use without remote
Press and hold the vibration button for 2 seconds, red LED stays solid. toy is in standby.
There are 10 vibration modes. Press vibration button again to go to your desired vibration mode. To turn off vibrations, press this button for 2 seconds again. 
There are 3 bead moving speeds. Press this button to go to your desired beads speed. 

How to pair with remote
Press and hold vibration button in the remote for 2 seconds to put the remote in standby. 
Press moving bead and vibration button individually to control different bead speeds and vibration modes. If the remote is not used during 30 minutes, it will automatically turn off. 

Travel lock
When the toy is off, press the vibration button for 2 seconds. The travel lock will be activated and red LED flashes twice. 
Repeat this step and the travel lock will be released.
When charging, the travel lock will be auto released.